This Valentine’s Day, do you know what your girlfriend wants you to do? You probably think that she wants you to give her flowers, chocolate and a stuffed teddy bear, but you could be wrong. Of course, we’re not saying that these things will not be appreciated if you hand them over to her, but there are other things she needs from you.
This Valentine’s, Your Girlfriend Wants You To Do These Gestures
Giving presents during Valentine’s Day is a good way to show that you care and that you’re invested in the relationship, but showing your love and care in other ways is better:
1. Touch Her While You Watch A Movie At Home
It’s not what you’re thinking, first of all. Touch here and there means that you show her how you feel by holding her hand, putting your arm over her shoulder, stroking her hair, or placing your hand on her waist, while you’re snuggled up on your couch watching a movie. Touch is a big thing for a woman. Most men underestimate the value of touch. This is the reason why it’ll be a special gesture when Valentine’s Day comes. You can even practice it after the V-day comes to an end.
2. PDA Goes A Long Way
PDA stands for public display of affection. You’re probably cringing as you read what PDA means, and that’s normal. Most men aren’t really showy with their emotions, but this Valentine’s Day surprise your girlfriend by holding her hand or by being affectionate with her in public. Your girlfriend knows that you love her, but this Valentine’s Day your girlfriend wants you to show how you feel about her in front of everybody.
3. Say Thank You
Did you know that a study confirmed that one of the most important things to say in a relationship to make it last is not “I love you”, but “thank you”? Yes, gratitude can go a long way, especially with the lady you’re in a relationship with. A heartfelt thank you can give your girlfriend one of the best feelings in the world.
4. Surprise Her
Don’t ask your girlfriend what she wants to do or have on Valentine’s day. Just surprise her instead. Your surprise doesn’t have to be fancy. It could be a simple dish you’ve cooked for her, it could be that you’ve done all the chores she’s supposed to do, or it could be a short but sweet letter that she would never have expected from you.
The items on this list seem simple enough, but to most men, they are going to be a challenge, especially if you’re the strong, silent type. But, if you truly care about the woman you’re with, you’ll do it nonetheless. Doing the suggestions on this list can strengthen your relationship even more.