You continually go on dates, but have you ever wondered what each one meant? For example, the first date could mean that both of you want to get to know each other. Going on a second one, on the other hand, means that the two people meeting could be entertaining the thought of being together. However, how about the third date?
The Truth About Going Out On A Third Date
According to experts, the third date is actually when two people decide if it’s a “go or no go” on the relationship. It’s when two people let their guards down. The first date jitters are gone, and the comfort on the second date is established. So, what should one remember while going out for the third time?
1. There’s still no commitment for the future.
You have to remember that meeting each other for the third time does not mean that you are already in a relationship. As mentioned, you’re just getting to know each other, and it’s just the start of the both of you showing off your true selves. Do not assume that the other person is already your boyfriend or girlfriend.
2. Take advantage of the chill environment.
On the third time that you see each other, it’s definitely going to feel more relaxed and chill. Make sure that you take advantage of this by being yourself and showing off your true personality. Of course, you still have to watch your manners and be careful not to say anything offensive. But, generally, you should act more like yourself (quirks and all).
3. Adapt a more honest mindset on the third date.
This is just like the second tip on this list. You should go on your date with an honest mindset. What this means is that you can talk about what type of relationship you want, what your future plans are, review past experiences openly and so on.
If the third date goes well, then you could be on your way to being in a serious relationship. Just remember the tips on the list. Because it is your deciding moment, you have to be prepared for what could come next. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.