How many times have you seen an average Joe walk down the street with a gorgeous woman by his side and wondered “How on earth did he pull that off”? Have you ever wondered whether you would have even tried to get that girl yourself? If you just wish you knew how to get her, read this.
Think She’s Too Good For You? Here’s How To Get Her
You may think she is too tall, too pretty, too rich or too educated for you, but the old saying ‘nothing ventured, nothing gained’ makes perfect sense in this situation. Here’s what you should do to get the girl you think is out of your league.
No pedestal this time.
First of all, you need to take her down from the pedestal. When we admire someone so much it is easy to overlook their flaws and overestimate their positive attributes. Who put this girl in the league that is so much better than your own league? Who says she is better than you? It really is all in your head, at the end of the day.
You’re a catch. Believe it.
Yes, she may be gorgeous or she may be extra sophisticated or wealthier than you, but surely there must be at least one thing putting you at an advantage. When you put a woman so high up in your esteem, you lose sight of yourself and reality. For you to like her so much she must be special, but why not appreciate how good you are too? Saying she is out of your league is a way for you to give up on a fight you haven’t even started, isn’t that a pity? Don’t let your inferiority complex get in the way of your happiness.
Work on your flaws but don’t obsess.
If you know your weakness, work on fixing it. If you’re no oil painting, make up for it with finding your style. Choose your best feature and focus on it, but don’t try too hard to hide your flaws. When we try too hard, it shows. Embrace your extra pounds, or your crooked nose, because it’s part of who you are – it may not be the best part, but so what?
The simple approach to approaching her.
Then, you need to realize that a girl that’s so much admired is most certain to be circled by creeps. Don’t be one. Don’t pretend to be something you aren’t. We’ve said it a thousand times, there’s no point in acting like someone you’re not. Don’t be cheesy or too forward, keep things simple and polite. She’s surely fed up of dirty looks, indecent jokes, and rude remarks. Be the decent guy who has the guts to ask her out without trying too hard (or at least showing how much he’s trying anyway).
It’s best not to use a cheesy chat-up line when you approach her for the first time. In fact, it’s been found that a simple ‘hey’ or a fun remark can be more efficient than any prepared line. Women, regardless of physical appearance, social and economic status or education, respond well to honesty and openness.
Using friend-zone wisdom.
If you’re the kind of guy that girls friend-zone a lot, instead of sulking you should use this experience to your advantage. A guy who has many women as friends has great insight into what bothers them, what grabs their attention and what kind of men they just can’t stand. Take all this into consideration when you flirt with her, because in reality what you have been taught through experience will show you how to get her.
Make yours a date to remember.
Whatever you choose to do when she goes out with you, make sure she has enjoys herself. Pay her lots of attention, compliment her, be open to jokes, be genuine and polite and don’t push things. Use body language to show her your romantic interest, woo her like a gentleman and be the guy who stands out from the crowd.
Whether it will work out in the end, is never guaranteed because chemistry is one thing there are no guarantees for, but once you follow this advice on how to get her, you will know that you have tried your best and have no regrets about what might have been. Next time you see a girl you like, even if she is Miss World, just go for her.
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