Commonly, when in a long-term relationship with a special person, we forget about the different ways to connect. For example, the human touch is very powerful in relationships, but we don’t see the value in it.
We Should Start Using Our Human Touch As A Means Of Connecting With Our Partner
It’s alright because we get caught up with other priorities. Life gets in the way most of the time, but we should still have the awareness to realign ourselves with things that can be beneficial for our relationship.
Our human touch, in particular, is one way to build a better connection with the person we love. In most cases, it is not hard to do, nor is it too time-consuming. Holding your partner’s hand, touching his or her shoulder, or even a peck on the cheek is not so hard to do. Other benefits of our human touch include:
1. Touching on the back releases oxytocin.
Did you know that oxytocin is also called the love hormone? Research has proven that it is released when a romantic companion touches one’s back. It’s a hormone that also promotes “pro-social” behaviors and a calming effect.
2. Touching the neck feels exciting.
Most of the time, touching your partner’s neck will evoke feelings of excitement. Instead of warmth or tenderness, it promotes connection through love, passion, and frenzy which could lead to physical intimacy.
3. Touching your partner’s leg or arm can make them feel supported.
Picture this: your partner feels bad. Then, you touch him or her on the leg, arm, or shoulder. It says that you are present for the person and that you want to be there for him or her for support. You don’t have to say anything at all to convey this message.
Of course, different situations evoke different feelings. For example, if you are using touch to work toward physical intimacy then any human touch can feel passionate and exciting. But, if the situation doesn’t involve passionate emotions, then touching certain parts of your partner’s body can make your partner feel cared for, loved, and supported. For more relationship tips, read other posts on the blog.