If you’re a cleaning freak, then you absolutely need to start de-cluttering your online love life. We have barely scratched the surface of the new year. To avoid feeling burnt out and “all over the place” when you online date, some organization is in order.
Easy-To-Do Tips To De-Clutter Your Online Love Life
You better believe that dating burn out happens. It’s a lot like getting burnt out from a job. You feel like you’re doing so much, and yet, you don’t get the results that you want. This could lead to frustration. To avoid this, we have listed the quickest and easiest fixes below:
1. Set Up An Online Dating Time
Why do you need to set up a specific time for online dating? It’s so you can have enough time for other things in your life. If you’ve decided that you’re only going to online date from 5pm-8pm, then your mind will get used to that schedule and it can do its job in focusing on other tasks.
2. Delete Old Conversations
If you don’t need to be reminded of a potential old fling that ghosted then delete your old conversations. While you’re at it, you can delete other conversations that you no longer need so you can make room for new ones.
3. More Actual Dates
Instead of spending so much of your time online, try to ask out people you like. Assuming that it’s the right time, and you’ve had plenty of conversations to make the other person feel comfortable, ask him or her out. Don’t delay.
4. Take The Pressure Off Yourself
In each of us, we have FOMO or the fear of missing out. You might just be online dating because everyone around you is getting married, getting engaged, and so on. So you may feel like you’re way behind. Get this perception off of your mind. Life is not a race. You cannot enjoy yourself while you’re online dating if you allow your fear to set in.
These are all basic tips you can do to start de-cluttering your online love life. The sooner you de-clutter, the sooner you’ll feel that online dating is actually not as stressful as you did. For more dating tips, read more posts on our blog.