How many times have you read in Easter European dating blogs that dominant males tend to attract Russian ladies easier than ones who are more heterosexual? Is there some truth to this? The direct answer is YES! The truth is, a lot of females are attracted to men who are dominant even though they may admit it or not. Most ladies will tell you that they want someone who’s nice, but has it ever occurred to anyone that nice guys have a hard time attracting ladies in general?
So we’ve established that. Now, how can men be “dominant” to attract Russian ladies both online and offline? What does it even mean to be a “dominant” male? Good questions.
Dominant Male Characteristics to Attract Russian Ladies
First off, believing in yourself is different from being boastful. Being boastful or being too confident indicates that a man is compensating for something. Men are confidently quiet when they act more than they speak. That is what attracts Russian ladies – it’s not about how men say that they’re confident, it’s when men ACT confidently.
Bragging is definitely out of the picture. You won’t attract a gorgeous Russian woman by being puffy and pounding on your chest. Remember that actions speak louder than words.
In Making Decisions
There is such a thing as an alpha female and she makes the decisions for herself most of the time. In fact, this is how Russian females are. They are independent, they are strong and most of them are pretty driven when it comes to life and career. This kind of woman needs a man who will make decisions for her when she’s tired. There will be a point where this kind of woman will be sick and tired of doing the leading herself. This is where you come in.
In Stepping Down
So this is confusing. How can you make decisions and step down at the same time? That’s a valid point. The answer is simple. A dominant man will know when to take the lead and when to give up the reins. You have to let the Russian woman be her own woman. Russian women are like sand. If you hold on too tight, the sand can escape through the small crevices in your hands, but if you cup your hands just right, the sand will stay put. This, actually, applies to most women so make sure you develop the skill to recognize when you need to let her be her.
It’s Take it or Leave it
As a dominant man, you should have this “take it, or leave it” attitude. You should be allowed to be a man yourself so if she’s not into what you want then don’t force her. If you’re not into what she wants, she shouldn’t force you too. Before the relationship, it’s a good way to show that you also have a life that doesn’t revolve around meeting Russian girls and during the relationship, it’s a good way to make room for both parties to be themselves.